Privacy and The Obligation to Explain

“…we should all share everything always…”

But do you really? I think it is very fair to say there is a range of topics which you (and any blogger) are more comfortable with sharing but aren’t there whole areas of human activity that you do not discuss with good reason? Like me, you do not share anything about your sex life, your bowel movements, your client’s business matters and your doubts as to the capacity of those you love or rely upon. There may be other things. This is good and does not defeat your point. But there are limits.

Alan…it’s a default setting. The opposite view to Peter’s is “Share nothing ever.” From there, you work towards a modicum of civility.

Like Peter I opt for the “share everything always” setting. If in doubt, share. It’s not an absolute stance, it’s a starting point. Societies based on one or the other starting points are very different places, even if people come to same middle balance points.

You have the advantage as, not having been to Peter’s guest lecture that happens 40 hours in the future, I have no idea what his position is. If it is only what he says above by way of proposition it will be a very short presentation.

But what a great point of view you share! As you explain, the concept of “default then drift” can be both wrong and right yet never be available to actual review while maintaining the comfort of a binary interpretation of, you know, things. Yet if one, as you may be indicating, inevitably move away from the default to another point then the default has no value as it is not what is actually experienced or, unless one is unaware, is not what is actually honestly advocatable. That troubles.

I trust it is more likely that Peter is actually saying that we should not all share everything always when he says that we should all share everything always after which he will then work on what he really means by everything (ie public sphere) which will exclude all those things no one in their right minds would ever share (ie private sphere) or would consider advocating sharing - while assert an interesting observation on the locating of a personal line between the public and private spheres. That would be more reasonable, interesting and useful.

Well…principles are useful. So with more precision: “ìf in doubt, share.” This is a radically different stance than “ìf in doubt, don’t share.” So this is a useful principle for me, and means we don’t have to make a long list of things that are on one side of the privacy line or the other.

I think we don’t know how much and with how whom and to what ends we’re sharing, and the possibilities are wide open. I’m using the precautionary principle as my guide. But then I generally prefer hedging against catastrophe over gambling to get ahead.