This isn’t happening to you; it is just happening.
Those words helpfully encapsulate an ad hoc philosophy I came to organically. Of necessity.
Yes, I’m Scott, I have these big dreams, and I’m going to do everything I possibly can to make those dreams come true, and… I gotta let it go. I gotta do the parts that I’m responsible for, and then if life wants to happen around me, or the universe wants to evolve around me, I don’t control any of that.